New Memes for the Relations Sector
From Newtonian Relations Memes to Quantum Based Relations Memes
In the Newtonian Worldview of separation, relationships are authoritarian, where rigid rules govern belief systems. Diversity in peoples and ideas are not tolerated, and the consciousness of survival and competition impacts decision-making and all other actions.
In the Quantum Worldview relationships are seen as collaborative and supportive. There is recognition of the sanctity of all of life, and each individual assumes their sphere of responsibility. There is knowledge that each of our actions impacts the whole developing a sense of oneness with the inclusive All. Each person lives knowing that unlimited potential exists not only for them, but for the entire universe.
Newtonian Relations Memes |
Quantum Based Relations Memes |
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Authoritarian Structure |
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Awareness of our Oneness |
Survival and Me-Centered Consciousness |
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Relational and We-Centered Consciousness |
Somebody/Nobody Game |
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We Are All In This Together Game |
Human Brain Trumps Everything |
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Information Comes From Multi-Dimensional Sources |
Belief System Mediates The Divine |
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Self As Direct Expression Of The Divine |
Predictable Thinking And Understanding |
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Unlimited Potential And The Power Of Not Knowing |
Competition |
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Collaboration |
Relationships Based On The Past |
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Relationships Based On Co-Creation And Radical Presence |
Primacy Of Human Needs And Desires |
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Recognition Of The Sanctity Of All Life |
Society Ruled By Rankism |
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Society Values Service To The Whole By All Parts |
Win/Lose Paradigm |
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Collective Wisdom Guides Decisions |
Leaders Are Responsible |
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Every Individual Is Responsible |
Fear-Based Relating |
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Love And Trust In Relationships |
Authoritarian Structure Becomes Awareness of Our Oneness
Newtonian Relations are ruled by an authoritarian, command and control structure due to the strong belief that one should fear forms of life that are different than oneself or one’s own kind. This “us vs. them” mentality has functioned particularly to form power structures in human community where certain aspects or types of life are deemed more righteous or knowing than those deemed to be less important. Quantum Relations support a universe and world-centric structure of inclusion where all life, thus all parts of the whole, are deemed equally to be one in universal consciousness where love, truth and faith in the greater good guide and direct our collective actions.
Survival and Me-Centered Consciousness Become Relational and We-Centered Consciousness
Newtonian Relations is focused on survival and me-first perspectives, which automatically causes us to discount other parts of life that don’t meet personal needs or fit with personal beliefs. Quantum Relations understand that we live in a multi-dimensional universe where each life form is known as an important and valued individuation (ME) that is in service to the one/whole of consciousness (WE), where everything comes to be through the interactions between individuations. Experience of life on a daily basis is impacted directly by the multiplicity of the levels of consciousness of each individuation (ME) that when combined co-creates our shared experience (WE).
Somebody/Nobody Game Becomes We Are All In This Together Game
Newtonian Relations is played out as the “somebody versus nobody” game where the goal in life is to be a somebody and not a nobody. Quantum Relations understand that all life forms are unique and that, if heard and acknowledged, the result gained is a collective intelligence that guides the evolution of all life. Thus, the Quantum game becomes we are all in this together. Rather than calling attention to our differences, the unlimited potential of all life forms are honored and invited to the table for consideration. Ideas converge and coalesce into needed manifestations for the shared good of the whole.
Human Brain Trumps Everything Becomes Information Comes From Multi-Dimensional Sources
In a Newtonian worldview the human brain is the highest level of intelligence. It is considered the most important aspect of being a human being and relating to the world and other beings. This gives the brain, and its more left brain dominance, power over thought and relationships, as well as the decision making process. In this world view information filtered only through the brain ignores other innate human qualities like love, appreciation, empathy and respect. In a Quantum worldview information comes into our humanness from multidimensional sources. The field of the heart has proven to be intelligent and we have long known the importance of the “gut-feeling”. In this new worldview human beings have access to and utilize equally the various dimensions of human knowing and intelligence in relating to others and making informed decisions.
Belief System Mediates the Divine Becomes Self as Direct Expression of the Divine
In the Newtonian world view a belief system is the higher authority that directs life, human nature and all relationships. These definitions of God rely on a religious hierarchy to mediate a sense of the divine thus permeating all relationships and decisions. In a Quantum universe a human being knows the Self as an individuated divine expression of the Source where power and unlimited potential arise from the understanding of the Self as one with the Collective Consciousness. Rather than being imposed from outside, authority and morality are internal.
Predictable Thinking and Understanding Becomes Unlimited Potential - The Power of Not Knowing
In the Newtonian worldview predictable thinking and understanding leads to a reductionist perspective on life where the future is assumed to be more of the same. Paradoxically we become victims of change even as we try to control circumstances and keep our world known and safe. We become bound by what we know from the past, the DNA we were born with and the limitations of karma. In the quantum universe the paradox becomes the powerful place between direct knowing and not knowing where unlimited potential and individualized expression has a critical role in the expansionist process of creating the future.
Competition Becomes Collaboration
In Newtonian relationships which emphasize Darwin’s survival of fittest, competition creates winners and losers. Each individual is isolated and has been taught that the only way to survival is through competition. In quantum relationships every being is known to be inter-connected. Each is recognized for their unique contribution and is always encouraged to give their gifts, not only to develop their own potential, but for a greater good.
Relationships Based On the Past Becomes Relationships Based On Co-Creation and Radical Presence
Relationships based on the Newtonian worldview/separation are typically focused on the past or future (e.g. personal stories, associations, concepts, cultural and group norms, goals and expectations.) In quantum-based relationships, value is placed on co-creation in the present moment. Awareness includes deep felt-sense experience of self and other, as well as the larger (non-personal) relational “Field” itself. Something “new” and “now” arises!
Primacy of Human Needs and Desires Becomes Recognition of the Sanctity of All Life
Relationships based on the Newtonian worldview value human needs and desires above and at the expense of the natural world. In quantum- based relationships human life necessarily exists in balance and harmony with nature and all life forms. There is a return to our proper place within the web of planetary and universal existence.
Society Ruled By Rankism Becomes Society Values Service to the Whole by All Parts
Newtonian Relations “rankist” structure is one steeped in the motivation to gain and sustain power and control over those life forms one fears or that are deemed to be less worthy of life and its bounty. Familiar forms of rankism are sexism, heterosexism, colorism, racism, ageism, classism, genderism, ableism, lookism, nativism, colonialism, and sizeism. Quantum Relations collaborative/co-creative structure is one in which all individuations serve the whole. Every individuation is encouraged, engaged, supported and participates in fulfilling its potential in service for the good of the whole of creation.
Win/Lose Paradigm Becomes Collective Wisdom Guides Decisions
In Newtonian relationships there is pressure to be “better” than others, the pressure to win and to come out on top. Fundamentally, it is each person for themselves. In quantum relationships the importance of collective wisdom becomes the overriding value, for it is this wisdom that allows everyone to come out on top. Humankind knows that by tapping into Source, our collective wisdom is honored and the universe evolves so that everyone participates in co-creating the future.
Leaders Are Responsible Becomes Every Individual Is Responsible
Newtonian Relations hold those labeled as leaders responsible for outcomes experienced by the whole. Thus, non-leaders often claim a victim position where they abdicate their responsibility. Quantum Relations embraces the knowing that unlimited potential is available when every person is aware of and can be depended on to act responsibly for the good of the whole. As increasing numbers awaken to their responsibility to actively engage their genius in co-creating a future that works for the whole of life, and leaders in return embrace the contributions of all, our shared capacity to co-create grows exponentially.
Fear-Based Relating Becomes Love and Trust in Relationships
Inherent in relationships based on the Newtonian worldview is fear of: vulnerability, loss, being rejected or alone, and death. Strategizing, violence, hoarding, avoidance, dissociation and “tribalism” arise within this paradigm. In quantum- based relationships, Self and Other are experienced as inextricably linked. When the well-being of the individual is recognized as contingent upon the well- being of the whole (and visa versa), and death is understood as a transition, then unconditional Love and Trust become possible.
Co-Created by: Janet Gunn, Shelley Tanenbaum, Wendy Foxworth, Claudia Haman, Laurie Hyland
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